The other day I was co-facilitating a group and found myself feeling tired. My tendency, when tired, is to float along with whatever I am doing, resigned to the fact that my energy is low and that there’s nothing to be done until it is over and I can get to a private place to recharge myself. What that means is that my attention in the interim would be diffused. This time, however, knowing that it was important for me to stay focused and alert, I took steps to change my state right there and then. Within a few minutes, … Keep reading
Every now and then, I hear of someone who’s on a diet and refuses to eat out with her friends because she’s afraid of yielding to temptation. Or the ex-smoker or drinker who no longer socialises with his buddies to stay away from temptation.
While I agree that the best environment for kicking an addiction is one that is removed from temptation (and probably essential in the early stages), that temptation must eventually be dealt with too, for the addiction to be completely healed.
The objects of addiction – drugs, alchohol, TV, internet, porn, food – will always be around, … Keep reading
Last night, I had “one of those” dreams. It wasn’t a recurring dream, but the visual and emotional tones were familiar. It had an ‘epic’ feel about it – stretched out in time and storyline. There was a certain greyness about it, something macabre even, a bit reminiscent of the movie The Mist.
Firstly, there were spiders. Lots of them. I am fearful of spiders. I was standing in a kind of courtyard in a house. From where I was, I could see the top of the trees in front of the house, beyond the roof. Somebody was talking to … Keep reading